I hope I don’t offend any wonderful, awesome women in this post. However, I struggle being hard on myself about being attracted to a future girlfriend. I’m worried I’ll see that she’ll be pretty and actually an awesome person, but worry about her being heavy or eventually gaining weight. Should I put that aside given anyone can gain weight? (which im not too worried about if its years into marrige). But I really want at least the dating/falling in love/newlywed days to be very special. And I’m afraid weight would negatively affect that.
To clarify, I have several friends who are good looking who happen to date girls I’m not attracted to, and they’re very happy. So that’s friggin’ awesome.
However, I can’t help but only seeing myself with a thin, pretty girl to fall in love with. Is this selfish?