There are prayers that I have recited so many times now that I find it hard to meditate on each word. Examples are the rosary, prayer before meals, and my daily personal thanksgiving. While reciting them, my mind sometimes wanders off because, like in the rosary, you meditate about the same words 50 times that my brain kinda burns out half-way through. I still keep in mind the gist of those Hail Mary’s, but I couldn’t contemplate on every single word, like “grace,” “among,” and “hour”. Sometimes I rush prayers because the words feel tired to me, but I still keep in mind what they mean. Also, there are times when I have young cousins praying the rosary with me and their playfulness and errors in speech detracts my meditation on each word. Is it sin not to feel and contemplate about each word you recite? Is it ok to recite prayers without meditating on each word but keeping in mind the essence of the prayer?
No it is not a sin. Where did you get that idea from?
It just came to me that it might fall under sacrilege, because prayer is a holy act and reciting one mechanically and without thought would be disrespecting it.
There are many ways to pray, and I am not aware of any required method. Pray as the Spirit moves you. Pray in all ways that benefit you spiritually, and don’t worry about the rest.
I haven’t heard of the method of pausing or meditating on each individual word, but I imagine it will benefit some people and not others.
On a related note, it may be useful to study a prayer word by word. For example, consider the word “daily” in the Lord’s Prayer. What’s that supposed to mean? Then bread. Then daily bread. However, I wouldn’t routinely pray that way.
Peace to you jedpatrickdatu.
I think you may have misunderstood something about prayer at some point.
Pray does not mean the same as meditating on each word of a prayer.
Praying means to speak to God or to speak to the saints asking them to speak to God.
There are different types of prayers.
Meditation is one type of prayer.
Even with Meditation Prayer - there is no requirement to meditate on each WORD.
With Meditation Prayer - one can meditate on the the idea of the prayer.
For instance in praying the Rosary - one way to do so is - the Hail Mary prayer words can be the “background” music for your mind, while the meditation on the specific Mystery is what is coming to your “foreground” in thought. This meditation on that specific Mystery may or may not have “words” - it could be a visual focus or a focus that contains thinking of words of the Mystery.
Another example when praying the Hail Mary prayer itself - maybe outside of the rosary - there is no requirements to meditate with these words either. You could choose to meditate or contemplate on the words - but there is no requirement.
When praying the Hail Mary, it is acceptable to know you are simply bringing yourself before Mary and asking for her intercessory prayers to God for you - without any meditation or contemplation on the WORDS.
On Prayers Before Meals - this is not designed as a Meditation - while you can meditate or contemplate if you choose. That prayer is designed to say “Thank you, God, for our food. Please bless our food.”
Prayer is like speaking. When we speak to someone, we express an idea. We do not have to focus on each word.
Have peace knowing that not only is it not a sin to not meditate on each word when praying, you are not required to Meditate in prayer. You may pray in a way that is comfortable to you - meditation is not required.
Sounds like it’s a good time to leave the prayers for a while and go out to do something in the world.
Praying means raising oneself to God’s heights, through a necessary, gradual transformation of our being.
No. I don’t suggest stopping praying.
I suggest you just try and take the prayers a little slower and divide them up into sections while praying and taking pauses between the different “clauses” of the prayer. I have had the same experiences where it feels like I am just mechanically going through the Hail Mary’s because I make myself pray a daily rosary.
Take the Hail Mary and divide it up and make it more of a talk with the Blessed Virgin:
“Full of Grace”
“The Lord is with you”
“Blessed are you among women”
“and blessed is the fruit of Thy Womb”
“Mother of God”
“pray for us sinners”
“now, and at the hour of our death”
The pause doesn’t have to be more than a second or two but just enough to make it feel like you are talking to the Blessed Virgin and not just reciting it for the sake of reciting.
When I pray the Rosary, I don’t meditate on the words of the prayers themselves but on the mysteries.
What I worry about is when my thoughts wander away, like when i suddenly realize that I am thinking about the grocery list rather than the mystery. Then I don’t get upset with myself (tricky!), but gently guide my thoughts back. I try to remember to ask my guardian angel to keep track of all that for later for me
Over the years I have acquired various sets of meditations on the Rosary, each of which I use for a while. Maybe every couple of years or so. That helps a lot because then I get different perspectives.
While it might become disrespectful if one falls into the habit of such mindless repetition…it is not a problem if one’s mind wanders a bit. In fact, such wandering can be beneficial - depending on what it wanders to.
The act of paying will tend to keep recalling ones mind to God. So even if you are thinking about something else…errands or some problem or issue or whatever…the mere fact that you are thinking about it in the context of praying can be useful to properly disposing your mind and heart to moving forward in God’s grace.
To an extent I agree with this. Not to give up praying…but to change things up a bit. use some different prayers, shuffle the timing around or include some activity like walking or biking as part of your prayer time…
Thanks everyone, you answered my questions well. I won’t worry about wandering off too much now, and I agree that prayer is like speaking in that you don’t contemplate on what you say but instead express an idea.