so I often have very pushy people, wanting me to tell them everything. i’ll give a couple examples
friends are dating and having issues, they both confide in me about certain things, and each one always wants to know what th other has said. of course, it’s not my place to pass on information between them, so I usually leave out things the other has said.
another thing, my mom, is she doesn’t like someone, she can be very unforgiving and wants me to stop being friends with whoever offended her, even if she’s overreacting or the issue isn’t a big deal at all. and I’m constantly getting harassed if I’m contacting those people or if they’re trying to talk to me and sometimes they are but I don’t want to tell her because that will be prob lematic for me, so I usually just try to change the subject or just don’t mention certain things, like if a friend called me or texted, whatever.
I don’t outright lie but I still feel bad for some reason. I know they don’t really need to know all this information in the first place though.
am I overthinking or is keeping information to myself wrong?