There are plenty of dresses that are stylish and modest. I guess, w girls wearing thong bathing suits, & TV showing so much, I don’t worry about my hem being 1jnch lower than the knee. I won’t wear miniskirts. My hems go from on top of my knee to the floor. In fact, as I was typing this, I realized I like long, maxi dresses.
This is tricky here. Say you are wearing a camisole w spaghetti straps. They accentuate boobs. I notice others wearing an over shirt, unbuttoned.,The overshirt May be transparent.
Shorts should be to mid thigh. Bicycle shorts are good. Capri pants are good.
Naked arms are OK but the cleavage shouldn’t show. I don’t show cleavage but if the tip of the top line shows, that’s OK.
If Jesus, came down and stood before you, would He, be happy or sad. You are not a sex toy for a raging hormonal boy. You are a treasure to be admired. The other thought is you don’t want to advertise sex b/c boys won’t consider who you are as a Spirit. They need to know all of you. Your brain,your talents, your relationship w God. How will they find your brain, if all theyre looking at is your body??
If you wish to attract young men for marriage, consider this: LUST feels great. It is what attracts us in a love match. So, we fall in LUST/LOVE. The only way to know whether or not he loves you, is to say,” NO “ to sex!! If he is in love, he won’t want to leave. If it’s Lust, they’ll take and walk away. You’d be damaged goods.
So, don’t be a sex object. Be a beautiful young, entire person…Hold out for the good guy. Don’t wear spaghetti straps in church.
God bless you, dear
Google prayers for Modesty or Purity.