June 2 Mass readings (Tobit wants to die / God's view of marriage [(?])

**Wednesday (6-3) **

**Tobit 3:1-11, 16-17: **

Grief-stricken in spirit, I, Tobit, groaned and wept aloud. Then with sobs I began to pray: “You are righteous, O Lord, and all your deeds are just; all your ways are mercy and truth; you are the judge of the world. And now, O Lord, may you be mindful of me, and look with favor upon me. Punish me not for my sins, nor for my inadvertent offenses, nor for those of my ancestors. We sinned against you, and disobeyed your commandments. So you handed us over to plundering, exile, and death, till you made us the talk and reproach of all the nations among whom you had dispersed us. “Yes, your judgments are many and true in dealing with me as my sins and those of my ancestors deserve. For we have not kept your commandments, nor have we trodden the paths of truth before you. So now, deal with me as you please, and command my life breath to be taken from me, that I may go from the face of the earth into dust. It is better for me to die than to live, because I have heard insulting calumnies, and I am overwhelmed with grief. Lord, command me to be delivered from such anguish; let me go to the everlasting abode; Lord, refuse me not. For it is better for me to die than to endure so much misery in life, and to hear these insults!” On the same day, at Ecbatana in Media, it so happened that Raguel’s daughter Sarah also had to listen to abuse, from one of her father’s maids. For she had been married to seven husbands but the wicked demon Asmodeus killed them off before they could have intercourse with her, as it is prescribed for wives. So the maid said to her: “You are the one who strangles your husbands! Look at you! You have already been married seven times, but you have had no joy with any one of your husbands. Why do you beat us? Is it on account of your seven husbands, because they are dead? May we never see a son or daughter of yours!” The girl was deeply saddened that day, and she went into an upper chamber of her house where she planned to hang herself. But she reconsidered, saying to herself: “No! people would level this insult against my father: ‘You had only one beloved daughter, but she hanged herself because of ill fortune!’ And thus would I cause my father in his old age to go down to the nether world laden with sorrow. It is far better for me not to hang myself, but ***to beg the Lord to have me die, so that I need no longer live to hear such insults.***” At that time, then, she spread out her hands, and facing the window, poured out her prayer: “Blessed are you, O Lord, merciful God, and blessed is your holy and honorable name. Blessed are you in all your works for ever!” At that very time, the prayer of these two suppliants was heard in the Glorious presence of Almighty God. So Raphael [the archangel] was sent to heal them both: to remove the cataracts from Tobit’s eyes, so that he might again see God’s sunlight; and to marry Raguel’s daughter Sarah to Tobit’s son Tobiah, and than drive the wicked demon Asmodeus from her.

St Mk 12:18-27: Some Sadduccees, who say there is no resurrection, came to Jesus and put this question to him, saying, “Teacher, Moses wrote for us, If someone’s brother dies, leaving a wife but no child, his brother must take the wife and raise up descendants for his brother.’ Now there were seven brothers. The first married a woman and died, leaving no descendants. So the second brother married her and died, leaving no descendants, and the third likewise. And the seven left no descendants. Last of all the woman also died. At the resurrection when they arise whose wife will she be? For all seven had been married to her.” Jesus said to them, “Are you not misled because you do not know the scriptures or the power of God? When they rise from the dead, they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but they are like the angels in Heaven. As for the dead being raised, have you not read in the Book of Moses, in the passage about the bush, how God told him, I am the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob? He is not God of the dead but of the living. You are greatly misled.”

The story of Tobit is very interesting. I wonder what it takes for us Christians these days to get St. Rapheal to come to our aid? :smiley: Do we have to be so down that we ask God to take us?? Hmmmm… :hmmm::coffeeread::hmmm:

Also its interesting that there is no marriage in Heaven… Does that mean husbands and wives will not be still married in Heaven??? Just wondering… God knows, of course…*

At the end of that psg Jesus seems to show God’s opinion of marriage… since he says “He [the Father] is not God of the dead but of the living.”

:smiley:

While I am still unmarried, I am certain that St. Raphael is only too happy to intercede for us when we ask him.

[quote=]The story of Tobit is very interesting. I wonder what it takes for us Christians these days to get St. Rapheal to come to our aid? Do we have to be so down that we ask God to take us?? Hmmmm…

Also its interesting that there is no marriage in Heaven… Does that mean husbands and wives will not be still married in Heaven??? Just wondering… God knows, of course…

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Ah, St. Raphael is God’s creation and God always answers prayers. :slight_smile:

I thought the Gospel reading is not so much as a statement on marriage but rather Jesus side-stepping Sadducees’ question that would put him in a trap. Unlike the Pharisees they did not believe in life after death. Remind me about Pharisees questioning Jesus about paying tax to Ceaser. In any case, heaven is so complete that one does not have to worry about marriage … .

i don’t worry about it much now… because even though i feel called to marriage (sometimes) it would have to be a very unique individual who could/would put up with me…

and from what i’ve seen of the men available these days… a big VICE VERSA… :smiley:

just being honest… but then the biggest problem is i haven’t always “hung around” the right places to meet Mr. Right… (or Mr Virtual Right… the only Mr Right is Jesus… :))

or st Anne…

have you heard the poem:

St Anne,
St Anne,
bring me a spouse
as fast as you can… :smiley:

but only if s/he is perfect… :rolleyes: :smiley:

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