I’ll try to be brief. I am just spouting off steam :mad:
My wife’s (unchurched) adult daughter & the 2 granddaughters 2 & 4 years old have been living with us a few months now. Her husband would not hold a job so she could not properly care for the girls as a result For me this was not a problem. Divorce proceedings have not yet been started.
Within the last few weeks she has started seeing another man. One morning I got up for work & his car was still outside. That evening I told my wife about it. He had left before she got up for work so she was not aware. She said she’d talk to the daughter about it. A few days later it happened again. Then 2 days later again. I told my wife & said I’d like her to handle it since it was her daughter. She did. When I left for work yesterday he was not there. When I got home he was not there. When I got home from my evening job (about 22:00) he was. At the time I said nothing, wanting to see if he was going home :ehh: Come midnight I was off to bed. They went into her room & closed the door :doh2: That was it! I told my wife “This place is turning into their playhouse. It has to stop.” :tsktsk: She said she did not want a direct confrontation. I said that it had to be corrected now. I gave her the option of doing it or that I would. She got up, knocked on the daughter’s door & said that the fellow had to stop staying the night. The girl came into the Master Bedroom to ask if it could wait till tomorrow. I said “No” :dts: She used several logical arguments to support her position. I said “No.” :dts: He left for home.