My husband this morning told me that he is very unhappy with the lack of passion in our marriage.
I think it is because I am not a vixen in the bedroom because we are affectionate with each other overall.
I don't know how to get over this.
He is now taking testosterone shots which means his sex drive has gone up.
Meanwhile, mine has practically dried up because I think I am in pre-menopause. I have gone to doctors about this , counselors, and have had to talk to them about this which is embarrassing for me because I don't like talking about sex.
I am angry with him this morning because it seems like he thinks sex is the be all, end all of a marriage and it is NOT. I'm tired of the pressure.
I am tired most of the time and I'm sorry there is not a hormonal "shot" for me to increase my sex drive.
I would try fantasizing about movie stars but I'm afraid I would then commit adultery.
I love and adore my husband, I just don't like sex with him though I do usually go along with him when he wants it. He will then complain I'm not passionate enough.
Any advice, prayers, help?