Well it is now less than two months to my wedding. We just we to Pre Cana this past weekend and we got more out of it than we expected to. I was not looking forward to the section on NFP, before Pre Cana I was thinking that this was old fashioned and why would we want to do that when there is a pill that can do it for us and we can just be lazy. Well we had two wonderful presenters during the NFP section, they really opened my eyes to why God does not want us to use ABC. Until the last few months we were not chaste in our relationship, but we are now. We didn’t realize that ABC, even chemical ABC, puts a barrier between husband and wife, and we also see where this makes us closed to life not open to it. We have decided to take classes on the Creighton Model, more because of the accuracy of it, and i like to plan and chart things (I’m an engineer what can you expect). But an unexpected side effect of just deciding to do NFP is that it has made us talk about when we want children and even more surprising was that we both realized that if we get Blessed early on with a child that we would be open and happy about it. I just find it amazing how you do things that He wants and its like a light bulb explodes in your head!!
Soon to be Husband of Hilary, 5 April 2008