I’m sure this question is asked quite a lot of times, and for asking this yet again I apologize.
This is a possibility that I may have a relationship with a fellow college student. The reason I said “possibility” is because I’m going to meet her, a mutual friend, and a couple others in a sort of “group meeting” so to speak. So nothing is for sure; I can tell you in a week, one way or another.
However, let’s assume that our feelings are indeed mutual. Now, some of you may know that, for the past year or so, I have had a vocation calling to the priesthood - the Dominicans, specifically.
Now, obviously I can’t have both a vocation to the priesthood and a girlfriend.
What do I do? What should I do?
Like I said, our relationship isn’t quite known yet. And since we’re meeting in a group, perhaps I can assume that she is careful (which is certainly a virtue; rather have someone who’s overly cautious than overly reckless).
Any and all help will be appreciated. Heck, just saying “see how it goes,” will help me. But I almost feel torn at the moment.