A bunch of threads have recently somewhat addressed this, but I thought I’d try to be more specific.
I admit that I do “make-out” with my girlfriend, but not real heavy or intense anymore since I had my accident (brakes failed on my Honda CRF80, interesting story if you want me to tell sometime) and we kinda found it better holding back. We find it much better to just cuddle up on a couch and remove such distractions. Oh, and we dont french kiss as we dont feel like slobering all over each other.
I personally cant find anything wrong with kissing, I guess, as long as youre not all over each other, dryhumping or something and/or doing it only for the pleasure of it and as an expression as affection. Yes, such kissing might/does sexually arouse, but not so much that I’d call it lust. Holding hands or kissing on the forehead can (and does) the same thing after all…or even just being with your un-married partner.
I dont mean to excuse sinful behavior, but I dont understand how this sort of temptation is different than going to a club or bar or something.