hi guys, i have a bit of a problem.
due to my mom’s life experiences with others always being jealous of what she does, she now no longer tells anyone where she lives or where we go on vacation.
because of this, i basically have to lie to people about where we’re going when we do go away and about where we live. because it’s kind of hard to not let people know when you go on vacation, you have social obligations that you normally do. or if people offer me a ride home, i always have to come up with some excuse.
on the one hand, i get the point of why she feels the way she does but on the other, i really hate lying.
i know, nobody really necessarily has to know this information but it’s really hard to avoid.
i usually try to be vague about vacation ploans but you know, people are always curious and want to know all the details. or about where i live, people are forceful and insistent in wanting to help me get there safely.
is it grave sin if i tell people we’re going to like seattle for exxample but in reality we’re going to las vegas?
or if anyone has any suggestions of a btter way to go about it, please let me know.