Do you think my husband is depressed or do you think it is something else?
What would you do?
tells me he is so far from where he should be in life (success wise)?
never wants to make love
spends most of his off time out in the garage tinkering around, smoking and talking to our neighbor instead of in with me and our son.
emotionally unavailable to me
never wants to talk about anything serious
bases life value around material goods
sleeps until late in the afternoon on days off
addicted to porn
I am starting to take these things personally and it is making me upset, but then he turns it around and says I am attacking him and he makes it all my problem.
Anyone been through this? We have been married almost 5 years and have a newborn (3 month old)