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What a wonderful husband and father you must be! Congratulations on the gift of new life!
I am sorry that you have to wait. You must love your wife very dearly and desire to be so close to her! This is a good thing!
Turn to St. Joseph, he is waiting to help you. Let the arms of St. Joseph embrace you and ask him to help you through this. St. Joseph loved and married a woman and never had relations with her...ever. He knows exactly how you are feeling. Turn to him and ask him to pray for you.
I will pray for you too. It is wonderful that you came here to ask such a personal question. God bless you and God bless your family life. Please take care as best as you can.
Thanks! I've only been Catholic for two years. Formerly I belonged to an evangelical church which would have argued this teaching as unduly legalistic... I'm just starting to try and learn the beauty of many of the Church's teachings.