I am a cradle catholic serious in my faith my wife whom I married back in 2009 is a non-denominational Protestant. We got married in the Catholic Church. When we were dating in the beginning I had what I did not know back then my wife start RCIA but then at that point I realized you cant force someone to convert to your faith it has to come in Gods time in their heart.So she did not pursue RCIA further she is presently non denom. Protestant Here we are 7 years later we have 3 beautiful children priceless gifts from God. So my issue is that my wife has started going to this MOPS group for pre school moms at a non denominational church ok fine I was ok but now I found this invitation to scripture \ bible study on our counter we had an argument b\c I do not want her doing this before you know it she starts attending services at this place and you know how it goes with people. My mother in law left the Church years ago likely b]c she was raised cultural Catholicism did not know her faith so left b\c if you dont know the faith then its no big deal to leave. It appears though over the past 7 years I have come to realize my mother in law really is Anti Catholic but in quiet way. My big problem is I love my wife but I dont want to ram the faith down her throat that will just drive her away. At our parish we do have bible study but b\c of our kids being really little still we have barely had time to get involved in our Church. I told my wife in pre canna classes I was going to raise our kids Catholic she said pretty much ok she even was for NFP in the child bearing years of our marriage which up until last year has been the past 6 years now all the sudden she wants to get her tubes tied. A lot of these things I could have never been able to see into the future to realize she was going to change all of this stuff in marriage I feel upset hurt and really deceived. I am not good at articulating the faith and she is not good at arguments starts to cry and melt down totally both of us just go silent and wont talk for a day or 2 when these types of faith matters come up.
I need objective advise help please I am really worried here.