First point: I’ve figured out the problem with society. Marriage is not about “me and him,” it’s about “me and him and we’ve got kids to raise.” I felt like a genius when I figured that out.
Second point: Is it wrong to be married and not have kids of your own? I’m 16 years old and I was doing some serious thinking and praying and I think I’ll probably get married, but I’m kind of scared of childbirth. Would it be wrong to be married and adopt and not have my own kids?
Point 2.5: Abortion is a super big issue with me, and I really do want to adopt. The other thing I’m scared of is if I have my own kids and I also have adopted kids I don’t want to favor any. As annoyed as I get with my mom saying “oh, you look just like [insert name of family member]” I think I would miss that. And I would hate doing that to only some of my kids.
Any experienced moms out there… please help me.