I am not a new poster here but have registered under a new name since some people know the real me.
I found out yesterday that my husband has been unfaithful. Actually, I suspected this for a while but found (accidently) unrefutable proof just yesterday.
Besides feeling sick and broken, I need to move forward. I have no intention of letting my husband know what I found or of confronting him. I do not want our marriage to end. We have children who would be devestated, emotionally and financially.
However, I do not want this to just eat at me until I become a bitter woman. I plan on trying to see a Catholic counselor once the kids are back in school. And I will be consulting a lawyer regarding how to protect assets in the event my husband decides on his own to leave.
Any other advice in the meantime?