The church allows a woman to reach sexual climax outside of normal intercourse, so long as it takes place within the marriage act as a whole. The reason for this is taught as follows: The woman’s climax has no bearing on the conception of a child. ie) It can happen with or without her reaching that point.
My question is then, why should a man have to reach sexual climax (you know where) if his wife is already pregnant (or during infertile times of the month)? His climax has absolutely no bearing on the giving of life, because life is already there or is not possible. It also has nothing to do with being open to life, if life is already established.
The answer to this of course will be that every act has to end objectively correct.
If that is the case, then there is a double standard between the rules of a wife and husband’s sexual climax. If a woman is allowed to climax how she pleases - since it bears no regard to giving life, then the husband should also be allowed to climax as he pleases, since/when life at certain times is not possible.
During the times that a woman is fertile, the act should of course then end in a way that is feasible to life.
The objectivity here should not imply. One can not also say that this takes God out of the equation. The couple is simply using the natural pattern of a woman’s body and doing things according to what can/cannot happen. If, by the husband ending the act elsewhere, (when life is not possible) takes God out of the equation - then so too by ALL means is God taken out of the equation when a woman climaxes outside of normal relations.
An example of this would be as follows:
There is construction on a road near your house. You know there is construction on that road, so you must drive a different path in order to avoid the hassle of the construction.
Time passes and the construction is long gone. You know it is gone, however you continue to drive on that other path because objectively it is what you are told you must do to avoid construction, when you can cleary see there is no more construction.
Thoughts and discussion welcome