Still feeling alone and on my own since the birth of my daughter in April. My husband and I have had our ups and downs before she was born, but I feel even more estranged from him now. Please tell me if it is normal to see your husband maybe 2 hours per night - he comes home and gardens outside - picks up our daughter for 1/2 hour - goes back outside - picks her up a bit longer - falls asleep and I'm sitting here by myself. If I am out of line, please let me know. Maybe I am too needy. Then, he "jokes" about needing an outlet for himself and going to a bar once in a while with a friend or going fishing. How much more distance can he put between us when I barely see him at all?
Still no intimacy to the point that I don't believe him when he says I Love You or flirts with me. I'm just too jaded now. Don't know how much praying I can do. Nothing changes, no matter how many times I address it with him.