My sister has inoperatable lung cancer and after 1 1/2 years of fighting it she has finally stopped her chemo and radiation treatments. My question is this: is it better for me to have a lot of masses said for her now while she is still living or have them said after she dies. Of course, I’ve been having them said for her all along her illness. Which does the soul more good, before or after you go? Obviously both, but I can’t afford that.
Thanks for your thoughts? Karen