Were it is…
Well I am a happily married Catholic who has a number of probems…
I am a beginning attorney who has become disgusted with the vast majority of the legal profession. I really doubt whether I really want to deal with the BS and “justified lies”. Student loan debts are high and confining. People expect me to be an attorney…lots of pressure. I’m not in a financial position to help anyone, and am barely making it myself.
I really don’t fit well with my friends. Most are not particularly holy people, but they are not bad either. I feel my friends do not benefit my spirituality and too concerned with the here and now. However, really religious people are not a good fit because I’m from “the wrong side of the tracks” and it shows in my personality.
My family is a blessing and a burden. My mother is 60 but acts in ways contray to her own good. She is capable of caring for herself but constantly will not change her lifestyle (clean, manage money effectively, take care of problems with the house) I have a decent relationship with her when I’m not upset with this bahavior. My sister and her boyfriend have 3 kids together and the situation is unstable, which worries me silly. My brother is holding his own but is unwilling to carry part of the load with me because he feels overtaxed too. This cuases resentment on my part because I feel everything is thrown onto me. I love them alot and want to help but they are stressing me out signifigantly and I keep getting upset at them. How do I deal with them without getting steamed.