Gotta throw myself in front of that car!
Colleen Hammond is likely a very nice lady, but, she has some very odd ideas. Like a fundamentalist pentecostal merged with a Catholic.
To the OP, we do not have to wear boxy dresses (because pants draw a man’s eye to the genitals, yes, that is what Dressing with Dignity teaches).
Few people realize that the Catechism defined modesty and there is no check list of “hoodies YES, crop tops, NO”
2521 Purity requires modesty, an integral part of temperance. Modesty protects the intimate center of the person. It means refusing to unveil what should remain hidden. It is ordered to chastity to whose sensitivity it bears witness. It guides how one looks at others and behaves toward them in conformity with the dignity of persons and their solidarity.
2522 Modesty protects the mystery of persons and their love. It encourages patience and moderation in loving relationships; it requires that the conditions for the definitive giving and commitment of man and woman to one another be fulfilled. Modesty is decency. It inspires one’s choice of clothing. It keeps silence or reserve where there is evident risk of unhealthy curiosity. It is discreet.
2523 There is a modesty of the feelings as well as of the body. It protests, for example, against the voyeuristic explorations of the human body in certain advertisements, or against the solicitations of certain media that go too far in the exhibition of intimate things. Modesty inspires a way of life which makes it possible to resist the allurements of fashion and the pressures of prevailing ideologies.
2524 The forms taken by modesty vary from one culture to another. Everywhere, however, modesty exists as an intuition of the spiritual dignity proper to man. It is born with the awakening consciousness of being a subject. Teaching modesty to children and adolescents means awakening in them respect for the human person.
You can read the entire section here http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/p3s2c2a9.htm#2521
As my mom aways said, pretty is as pretty does. Modesty is more about the heart than about the length of the skirt.
And, yes, I wear modest two piece swimsuits.