Six or seven years ago a friend asked me to be godparent to her then 9 year old daughter. I had my doubts because I wasn't convinced that she had a real motive to raise her daughter as a practicing Catholic, and in fact, just wanted to get her into a good Catholic school. I discussed some of my doubts with her, but perhaps not strongly enough. Anyway, I finally accepted, and became the daughter's godmother.
The problem is that after a few years, my friend decided she didn't really believe in or accept many Catholic teachings and she stopped going to mass and stopped taking her daughter who now never sets foot in a church. My friend also told me, while quite drunk, that she had an abortion years early and in her own words, she 'never regretted it or gave it another moment's thought'. This would mean that at the time when I was being a godmother she was in actual fact in a state of excommunication, although she was regularly receiving Communion at that time.
Her daughter is now a teenager who dresses like a slut (sorry, there is no other way to describe her lack of clothing) and covers herself in garish make-up, and is obsessed with sex, boys, fashion etc. I have no idea what I am supposed to do, except say a prayer for her. I have very little contact with the friend any more, and when I tried to discuss suitable clothing etc with her, she got very angry. But don't I have a responsibility before God to guide her daughter? I am rather worried about the whole situation, and would appreciate any advice.