I discussed the problems with my mother before on this forum. I have another question though:
Right now I have an arrangement with my mother that I will come visit her once every 6 weeks. I live almost 2 hours away from her place. She is pleased with the arrangement as am I.
The thing is that one weekend in November, and is the 6th week in the row, I will go on holiday with a friend. I already booked it and it was the only weekend we could go.
My brother also comes that weekend to my mother (we always make sure that it will be a weekend that my brother is also at my mother’s).
I think she will be ‘mad’ at me that I fail to uphold the promise/ arrangement to come once every 6 weeks. I can say that I will come a week earlier or later, but I think this will cause trouble with her.
What do suggest I should do or say? Thanks in advance!