I was talking with my online friend last night and he told me he was spending 4th of July weekend with his parents/family. I said oh that’s great etc., then he paused a bit and said he would love for me to come out there on that weekend:eek:. Needless to say, I was caught off guard and surprised. I didn’t know what to say since we haven’t met yet and he actually wants me to meet his parents/family.
I think I may have made him feel bad because I sounded so shocked:o and said “what…are you sure” what a horrible thing to say…I’m a dope!!! He then apologized for asking and said he didn’t mean to make me uncomfortable and that he realized it was short notice and that I might not be ready to be around his family.
What do you guys think? Did I overreact or should I consider going? After some time of thinking about it I thought it might be a good idea to meet his family even if it was our first time meeting. It could be a quick way of figuring out if I should continue correspondence with him, I’ll be able to see him among his family and friends…it’ll be real hard for him not to be who he really is…for the most part anyway.
Tell me what you think…good idea, bad idea…go for it…stay home, make him visit you first, etc. Quick responses would be appreciated since the 4th is coming up real fast:D!!!