I’m in real need for advice. I’m a 31 year-old Catholic male that just got engaged. Two months prior to engagement, a high school gal friend found me again after eleven years. We found out that we had liked eachother back then but it was nothing more than that. She is not Catholic, Christian but non-practicing.
When she was 13, the doctor told her she would not be able to bear children. For the past 10 years, she had been in and out of two homo-sexual relationships. In between those two relationship, she had a run in with an old boyfriend and got pregnant at 27. She loves children so had her daughter and became a single mom.
After finding me, she thought we could work something out but I ended up proposing to my now fiance. She then met a lady and said that she is engaged and getting married this month. The last thing I told her was that “I am happy you are happy. You know how I feel about marriage.” She is a real good friend and I don’t want to lose the friendship.
Any advice to save this friendship would help. I told her the story of my conversion and how import God and the Catholic faith is in my life. That is why I said what I said.
with hope and prayers,