[quote="purple_pixie, post:1, topic:267423"]
I am 25 and have a 5 month old son with my husband. He has left me. I don't even know why I am writing this on a forum or what I hope to gain. It is final, he left last night and came for another talk this morning. I know he is very upset and so do this justaid he didnt mean t before christmas. He said he has wanted to do this for the past lot of years (we have been married almost 6) and only had the courage to do it now. I have begged him for the sake of our son to use this as a wake up call and a fresh start. He is adamant he does not love me and doesn't want to even try to fix it. I am in shock, I cannot believe this is happening to me. We used to be so happy but not for a while. I have known he has not been happy and have done everything to try and help but he says he is not happy because he has known he doesnt love me. He loves our son and still wants to be a good father but doesnt love me and wants out of the marriage. I have tried everything to pursuade him to give it another go with no pressure. He says its not fair on me he cant treat me the way i want because the love is gone and I will thank him in the long run. I am in shock. 2 days before christmas.
I am so sorry my friend.(((HUGS))) for you xo
It is cruel the way he has done this and my heart goes out to you.It is never nice for any couple to split up but as you say two days before Christmas.....I am so sad for you.
I will pray for you.Why not start a prayer thread in the prayer intentions forum.I am sure many of us prayer warriors would be happy to pray for you and with you.
I hope you have family nearby who can comfort you and help you emtionally and practically over the Christmas period.I would suggest you make an appointment to chat to your priest about what has happened I am sure he will give you good spiritual advice.
I pray he will open his heart and mind,that God may guide him.I hope he misses you and your child over the Christmas holidays and this may make him soften his heart.
Eventually I pray he will agree to go to counselling with you that your marriage may be saved.
With God all things are possible.God loves you and He will get you through this very tough time emotionally.
You are in my thoughts and prayers
Our Blessed Lady please intercede for our friend
Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen