My relationship is a mess and I have feelings for someone else


I fell for our friend, because he laughed at my jokes and listened to me. And is nice. My bf has been ignoring me and talkin to me kind of mean or short. The other guy is unavailable so now I have to get over him as he moves away, and I’m sad about my bf. I told him we are on a break because of all this. I feel like I’m being criticized a lot and like he insults my hobbies that bring me joy.

Now I’m almost 33 probably single, about to lose my job due to downsizing, and my bf also helped me financially. The thought of being a single woman in my 30s is humiliating for me, bu I’m also tired of being insulted.

I really want a job in the military, losing my bf means losing a lot of military friends, and that’s sad. I despise the city I’m in, just want a job out of stare, but can’t even afford a car.

I really need prayers. We all do. Anyone can PM if you want.


I’m praying for you. May the Lord resolve your situation.


Hail Mary,
Full of grace
The Lord is with Thee.
Blessed art Thou amongst women,
and blessed is the fruit of Thy womb, Jesus
Holy Mary
Mother of God,
Pray for us sinners,
Now and at the hour of death


My prayers also, that you won’t settle for someone who will bring unhappiness bycrttism and a lack of genuine love that would only worsen if the relationship became permanent. My prayers also that you will realize that other people’s possible perception of you is not a good reason to remain in an emotionally abusive situation. It’s no shame to be single.
God grant you the maturity to deal with your life choices wisely.


Thank you all, this is so hard so thanks for praying.


It is OK being Single than be miserable


True but I am very happy half the time, being single is miserable, and I love the other guy lol so I’m miserable either way.


Saint Michael, the archangel, defend us in battle, be our defense against the wickedness and snares of the devil, may God rebuke him, we humbly pray. And do you, O’ Prince of the Heavenly host, by the power of God thrust into Hell Satan and all the other evil spirits who prowl about the world for the ruin of souls.


Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.


Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.


For Help in Trials

Most holy apostle St. Jude, faithful servant and friend of Jesus, the name of the traitor who delivered your beloved Master into the hands of His enemies has caused you to be forgotten by many. But the Church honors and invokes you universally as the patron of hopeless cases–of things despaired of. Pray for me who feels so hopeless. Make use, I implore you, of that particular privilege accorded to you of bringing visible and speedy help where help is almost despaired of. Come to my assistance in this great need, that I may receive the consolations and succor of heaven in all my necessities, tribulations and sufferings, in particular (
LuciaPacifici), and that I may bless God with you and all the elect throughout eternity. I promise you, O Blessed St. Jude, to be ever mindful of this great favor, and I will never cease to honor you as my special and powerful patron, and to do all in my power to encourage devotion to you. Amen.


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