my sister is having a bit of a dilemma right now… but she doesnt even know i know.
my sister was with a guy for 6 years. they had true love. they were meant to be married. she left him for his rich best friend (i love her to death, but shes a gold-digger). anyways, the ex is still, after 3 years, heartbroken like it was yesterday. this is not the point.
she married this rich guy recently. i IMed her ex and asked how he was doing. he then tells me that they were carrying on behind her fiance’s back. sleeping together. here and there. i flipped. i knew it!!! anyways, i didnt approach my wed-that-day sister about this. i still havent. he told me the last time they had sex, he didnt “pull out”. he finished the act inside of her. i dont know the motives for this, as it still isnt the point im trying to make here and now.
now, my younger sister whos staying with her and her husband were talking just about 20 minutes ago. i was telling her about how i may be pregnant (my husband and i are excited to find out) and then she tells me off the record that our sister asked her for a pregnancy test and she doesnt remember the last time she had her period. i of course didnt bring up the ex. like i have said, i havent told anyone i know about it.
so, my sister may be carrying her ex’s child. and the husband doesnt even know. i dont care any at all for this guy but i still feel bad for him. but part of me feels like this was meant to be anyways, as she married him for all the wrong reasons.
what i am getting at is…
i actually feel good and secretly hope it is the ex’s. i dont know if this is appropriate or not. she still loves him. if i were to go into the details here about everything i’d write a small novel.
my fear is that she may abort this child, for fear that her little secret will come to the light. im going back home for a week to visit my family. should i confront her, after i find out forsure if she is pregnant? i dont know if it would be right to even get involved. she definately doesnt know that i know about the two of them. he said they arent seeing each other or talking because the last time they did they had a HUGE fight. i told him that she might be and he is waiting on me to find out. that may have been wrong. someone please tell me what i should do… if anything