My father retired last year and has been at my brother’s house (away from my mom) helping him look after his 2 yr old. Last year, I happened to go through his phone and happened to see his search history which included searches for Porn websites and Brothels nearby.
My father has had a history of cheating and sadly each time I’d be the one to find out first, just the thought would deeply hurt me. Although I know that he isn’t having an affair at the moment his internet searches sadden and disturb me and I am not sure what I should do about it (because this time I wasn’t supposed to know)
Apart from this he’s a great father and takes good care of me and my siblings. He makes a lot of sacrifices for us and puts our needs first. Should I just bury this in my heart and take it to the grave, living peacefully the way we are?
If possible I would love some advice from older, married people on the forum