I am a 35 year old man who would like to know if I can/should get a hair transplant.
Here is my situation... I am currently going through an annulment and cannot date for awhile. I have been told that this is a time for me to spend with God and to prepare myself for my future. I have been actively working on healing some emotional wounds from my past so i can enter a new relationship and be healthy. Because the human person is spirit and body, there are bodily things that I am also working on. Working out - losing weight and toning my body, getting invisalign braces to fix my teeth and teeth whiting for a nicer smile. These things are a no brainer for me...
I do have a physical birth defect on my face, which I cannot change. I am content with it. I do have a seriously receding hairline and the hairloss makes me look much older than I am and feel. I know that the right woman will not really care if I am bald or not, but I do care. I am discerning if this is just vanity/lack of trust in God's providence, or if in His providence he is giving me the freedom to do something about it because i do have the financial means.
The Serenity prayer raises this question in my heart...
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
Another question is, would getting a hair transplant - going from nearly bald to a good head of hair actually turn off the girls I already know - they may tink I am being too superficial?
Please - Ladies especially - Share your feedback!!!