A friend of mine texted me the other day and was rather unhappy about the fact that her 14 year old neice had lost her virgnity and thought it was the greatest thing ever and had no plans on stopping. This child thinks its “cool” and that having a heap of babies to her 14 year old boyfriend and bludging off the government would be cool.
I’m only 26 and my friend is only 24, the 14 year old girl comes from a rather unstable family and my friend can’t tell the child’s parents becuse they will beat the living heck out of her.
I essentially told my friend that there’s really nothing she can do as the loss of virgnity has taken place, but to try and warn her of the risks - which, most 14 year olds engaging in sex dont’ really care about, I’ve told my friend to try and convince her neice that she deserves better then some 14 year old idiot who’ll just be bragging about it, but this poor child doesn’t seem to have any real hope for her furture, or education or anything.
In the end I just told my friend to pray - my friend however, takes it upon herself to be involved in not just christainity - she mucks about with taroo and syances and the likes, she’s a form of christanity we have down in New Zealand which is popular amongst the local Maori peoples.
Is there any advice, or websites I can go to to get info that would open the eyes of this child? I can’t do very extensive searches cos I use the school computers and they pretty much block all the sites that could be construde as “porn”, including the word “virginity”.