I need some advice on an issue I am having. My wife and I are about to celebrate our 6th year anniversary and have been having an issue in our marriage for a while now. We are distanced from each other by this problem occurring every so often and I wanted to get advice from other men who may have had a similar problem or anyone who might have insight into this.
The problem is when she and I are around other people, the way I act changes and I often end up hurting her in actions I do or things I say. It seems over time with this problem happening, I’ve noticed I don’t always act the same strange way, but I act in different strange ways with different people. I also think I may be imitating the behavior of the people I am around with her. Some examples would be not letting her finish a question, answering in a rude way, talking to her in a tone of voice that is not nice, even raising my voice at times.