my father is agnostic, he left the Church when young, he likes to talk about spirituality, so what should i say to him? he seems interested in magic since he has books and some tarot cards, never seen him doing anything except read the books i think. he also seems to have some resentment towards the Church for what they done in the anicent Mexico (on the conquest and the colony) so what should I say to him, and how often do you think I should bring this theme, should i ask him why did he leave the Church and try to correct whatever he might have wrong? or at least to prevent him for entering the occult practices or to leave them (knowing he is agnostic)?
also my brother, who seems to be reluctant to obey the Church at everything she says, he likes to take some parts annd leave other, i assume (don’t think i have asked him) thinking that he does not not have to obey the Church at everything, he also has a girlfriend and has sex with her, so i assume that that makes it more risky that he would leave the Church if he knew what she says about that.
i would lik to know specially for this cases but also in general how many times should I try to evangelize with words, i mean i sometimes feel like i should be all the time trying to, but i think that is being scrupulous.