Jay, I am sorry that you are having to put up with this. She definitely sounds like someone who is sadly spiritually lacking. The managers sound inept, and perhaps even corrupt. Though everything seems dark, please know that Christ is the light, and that NOTHING escapes God. He sees all, and knows all. Please rest assured that this woman and the managers are going to have to answer to God sooner or later. It may not be today, or tomorrow, but when they least expect it, God will seek recompense for their actions. God will also bless you for your sufferings.
I am going to pray for you, but you may also want to light a candle to each of the the three Archangels (Raphael, Michael, and Gabriel), and ask them to intercede on your behalf so that this woman will suddenly find a work situation far, far, away that she prefers, so that you won't ever have to see her again. Also pray for protection from evil for yourself.
In the interim, you may also want to look into getting a second opinion from another doctor re the medicine you are taking for your panic attacks. I am not an expert, but it may be that the medicine is not helping you at all, and that your stressful situation with this terrible woman and the inept managers is rendering the medicine useless. You may need to a brand name medicine (some generic medicines are not that great --- no matter what the drug company says) or another dosage of your current medicine. Again, I am not an expert, but it wouldn't hurt if you went in for another opinion.
As for blessing people. I remember once reading that Dr. Norman Vincent Peale (author: The Power of Positive Thinking) would bless people in his mind. The people don't have to know that they are the beneficiaries of you carrying out the love of Christ by your blessings. I usually do that, and I find peace in knowing that I am quietly carrying out the Love of Christ.
Finally, at the risk of sounding flippant (believe me I am not being flippant), you may also want to take a look at your diet. Sometimes coffee acts as a diuretic, and drinking coffee soon after taking your medicine can weaken its impact. Again, I am not an expert.
Please let us know how it goes.
Heavenly Father, in faith, I am thank You for bringing peace, joy, protection, and wonderful blessings to Jay and his parents. Thank You Lord for sending the Power and Glory of Your Holy Spirit to Jay, his parents, their home and all levels of their lives. Thank You Lord for placing Your Holy Spirit around Jay, so that he may feel the warmth of Your love and Your Glory. Thank You Lord for repealing any and all evil that may attempt to hurt Jay, his parents, their home or any level of their lives in any way. Thank You Lord for the Powerful and Glorious Blast of Your Holy Spirit in their lives. Amen.