My husband switched jobs 6 mos ago–better opportunity. But his boss is a lunatic–nothing is ever good enough, doesn’t give any guidance, yells daily at my husband makes him feel incompetent and frustrated because he won’t give him all the details he needs to do the job correctly. Other co-workers have experienced the same thing, but it doesn’t make a difference. We’re so stressed–I can’t sleep or eat worried this ticking time bomb will blow up and he’ll be out of a job. He’s working hard and doing the best he can given the information he has–it’s not like he doesn’t know what he’s doing, he does. But this guy has a different way of doing stuff and just expects my husband to know—in fact, my husband called him to ask him a question, told him where he had a problem, and the guy ripped into him, said HE didn’t have a problem with the same task–hubby asked how he did it, and the guys response was to figure it out himself. Told him today a task should have taken 1 hour–hubby knows it takes much longer.
I’m a wreck, he’s a wreck. He’s considering switching jobs, but that’s not a good answer either. Might require a move, stress of starting over, more travel.
Please pray that things get better with this boss—that perhaps the boss has a revelation of some sort. Or at least that my hubby has some coping mechanism to deal with this guy or that he can figure it out faster and do what this guy wants (which is perform miracles)