I wanted to get some unbiased advice from a man and woman’s perspective
My fiance has a friendship with a girl he met on myspace 3 years ago. The original intention was possible romance but he says it wasn’t there and they remained platonic friends since. They communicate through phone and email and don’t hang out in person.
(He says they actually never met in person) She’s single and he recently shared with me that he sometimes gives her love advice. He says I should trust him, there is no romantic feelngs whatsoever and he enjoys the friendship. I worry about emotional involvement and I don’t like that she never has a boyfriend. He has never put her before me in anyway. He always shares his feelings, thoughts and stories with me. I am there for him emotionally 100% and vice versa. I find it a little strange that in 2.5 years he has never spoke to her in front of me. I have never met her. I can get jealous sometimes and am trying hard to be rational and trust him. We are both aware of emotional involvement and he says it is not like that. The situation bothers me and I don’t know if I need to keep a clear head about it or is this relationship leaving a door open in some way?
Just a side note: I am not posessive and don’t mind his other friendships with men and women. I encourage them and know they are healthy. He has a couple friends that are women from college or old motorcycle riding buddies.
Thanks for your suggestions everyone!