I’m 20 years old, female, and have never dated or kissed anyone. Nor had I sex. It’s something I have mixed feelings about. For myself, I feel no shame, but when other people demand whether I have ever been with someone else, I feel the compulsion to lie. This is now getting worse as my friends begin to get steady boyfriends. And to be perfectly honest, THIS is the first time I have ever admitted it.I don’t think I have a vocation. At least, not at the moment.
I did watch porn from time to time. It wasn’t an addiction, and I praise God for that. But I feel as if I’m now ‘unclean’. But is it weird that I have never dated? I feel it is, and while I don’t like talking to other people about it, I’m still very happy with where I am at the moment.