Thanks … That’s my line of thinking … He even said he enjoyed singing, from personal experience I’m there for a variety reasons not just because I can play the organ sometimes! It can help my esteem and also my faith etc. Just as it can his.
We don’t have a choir director we only have about 10 members, there is no hierarchy so if anyone shouts loudly they get can form an impression. He turned up at choir today and was fine as far as I can see, in that he could sing. He does have a problem with communication / constructing sentences etc… but iit should only be a matter of us listening more attentively. The problem seems to be him attending choir practice during the week and also to do with CRB checking for anyone who drives him home, I have been a bit naughty in that respect driving him home without CRB checking. I think the CRB thing is clouding the issue though. I’m happy to be CRB checked if necessary, I did say this when the disagreement arose.