I need advice. bad.
I got married this past July and moved to where my husband lives. I thought everything would be fine since I had a really good friend in the area. She was my maid of honor even! However, the wedding was the last time we saw each other or even really talked unless she was being drug along by her husband to our house because my husband and her husband are best friends. She stopped returning my calls, and I NEVER hear from her. Every time she comes over with her husband, she promises we’ll hang out, but then she blows me off nomatter how often I call, email or text her. I’ve kind of written her off at this point.
At any rate, I moved to an area to be with my hsuband where I can’t get a job. There are no jobs in my field, and even administrative I can’t get because they all want bi-lingual, and I’m not. The hispanic population is overwhelming and they don’t speak english, so I am kind of screwed, and what is worse is that the 40,000 i went into debt to get my education is coming into repayment, and I don’t have a job to pay it back with except the occasional temp part time jobs I get selling sweaters or whatever.
I don’t know what to do. I am stuck here in a small town, unable to get a good lasting job, completely and utterly alone (my husband is the only person I have to talk to anymore, all my friends live more than an hour’s drive away) and my family is even further. It’s getting so bad I’ve been unable to sleep, I’m so completely lonely here. And what’s even worse is I am starting to feel myself resent my husband for this. He saud I would have to move up here, and I did, and now the only contact I get is the cat we just got. I dont know what to do!