[quote="twoangels, post:4, topic:239590"]
why are you asking?
I'm not the OP, but I'm hgoing to go ahead and guys that "out of a desire to know the answer" would be the response. If you're not going to answer, no need to waste bandwidth.
Now, to answer the question - for us, it was not nearly often enough. My wife had some issues. I was (mostly) patient about it, and things got better. It started with with as little as twice a month as newly-weds, but once we got our issues straightened out it improved drastically, daily on average I'd say. At that time we were both working full time but had no kids, so there was really nothing better to do. Work, sex, recover, eat, maybe more sex, sleep. Those were the days!
Frequency of intercourse has proved to be a pretty accurate marriage barometer for us. The more often we have sex, the better our relationship is. I'm still not sure if the chicken or the egg came first, but I have noticed that making the time for frequent sex - ignoring the little stuff that doesn't matter -like the TV, the lawn, the laundry, the dishes - all that can be done another time (or skipped entirely - who cares?) - reliably results in a better us. YMMV.