[quote="themeginthemoon, post:2, topic:249103"]
It is not ok. *You then become a sex toy to her, and if you climaxed, it would be the other way around. * Be chaste on those days, and just enjoy each other in nonsexual ways.
Careful how this is said. The wife's climax is certainly good, but not required for a unitive and procreative act to take place. As its worded, it sounds as if the wife would be used as a sex toy if the man was the one who climaxed and she didn't, ie, "the other way around". The husband's orgasm is a necessary part the act because of the transmission of seed. The wife's orgasm, while something the couple should achieve, is not.