This is my first month on NFP since we got pregnant a month after we were married. I had discussed it with my husband before I started. He was okay with it. Now he says I sprung it on him and that it is always my way or the highway. He says he’s sexually frustrated (it’s been a week now), and that he didn’t see anything in the book that said we can’t do other “things.” He wanted to use the condoms up first, but then I just went ahead and started “my thing.” He says I’m being a fundamentalist.
I don’t know what to do. I don’t know why he has such a problem with me trying to be a better Christian. He has always had a self image problem and I guess he thinks this is my great excuse for not having sex or doing anything with him for weeks at a time. I said I wasn’t being a fundamentalist, just orthodox. He refuses to see anything wrong with ABC’s in our situation, I guess since that liberal priest told us we’d be okay. He still thinks we weren’t wrong to live together before we got married, since the same priest said that was up to us, too. I think he resents going to this new church; he told his daughter that I wanted to go there “for some reason.”
I need your prayers :crying: