I have to agree. I had enough drama growing up to last a lifetime. Having to deal with an oger, or having to avoid one, is a trial one way or the other. It is a problem only prayer can resolve.
In the end, we all deal with these types of issues according to our own means. What might appear sanctimonious to one person, might feel entirely different to someone else. It’s like the three blind mice that grab the elephant.
There is a Catholic remedy on how to deal with our enemies. If we all could remember and practice these, I include myself in this, these problems would end as quickly as they start.