jazznne says :** “my real question was, is letting nipples show through … the shape showing through … [is that] immodest?”
I have seen, many a time, somehow VERY form-making tops on many woman.
I am a little over-modest about that. It pains to see it (I just wince inside).
But, I also don’t like to see kissing scenes in movies.
I feel embarrassed to watch them (somehow invading their “space”).
Usually when I walk, I purposely do not look at people. I give each person his space.
So, unless I am standing (in a line, or otherwise), I don’t see too many faces (much less, a lot of bosums).
So, to answer the question : Are well-shaped nipples popping out through fabrics immodest?
I think that if this happens (and not at a beach, or other place where people wear very little), it is suggestive, and (because she knows she is “Showing”) she is trying to tantalize some of the men and boys who see her.
So, if her purpose for dressing like that is to tantalize some men, I call that immodest.
But my being over-embarrassed by this is just one of my foibles. Everyone has things they over-react to. And everyone’s are different.
It makes Life more FUN that way.