On Not Wearing A Bra

#21

If you get yourself sized properly and buy the correct size then they should be comfortable.

I have to wear a bra because I’m nursing which means that I have moved from a C to a D and because I have over supply issues and a forceful let down.

I was at one of my drill weekends and was wearing my nursing bra, a thick t-shirt, thermals and my ABU jacket and I still leaked through a little.

I think wearing a bra is a good thing and I could make an argument that not wearing one would be considered immodest.

I will admit that the times I’m not nursing or pregnant, I tend to go without a bra when I’m at home.

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#22

I have not read all the responses so I apologise if this is repeat advice.

I also find bras uncomfortable to wear on days I am not going anywhere specific, for want of a better term. So, I found these: galleryplus.ebayimg.com/ws/web/310865790976_1_0_1/1000x1000.jpg

I got them cheap at TK maxx, but the brand is Marilyn Monroe Women’s Two Pack Racer Back Sports Bra. I think you can also get them cheaper on amazon.

Just in case you are thinking that they are a straight jacket like other “sports bras,” they are not. They literally feel like you have nothing on but a top, but even more comfortable because your bits are delicately supported. Best thing ever. No wires. Just thin but clever material.

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#23

As with all questions regarding modesty, I have but one answer: there’s no bright line test. Not wearing a bra may be immodest in some circumstances and perfectly fine in others. The whole rather than particular determines if someone is modestly attired. In this instance it would depend upon a number of factors in addition to not wearing a bra: the nature of the outer garment(s), the woman’s build/physique, etc.

There was a time, not too long ago, when most God-fearing women and clergy considered brassieres immodest and scandalous.
:wink:

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#24

well, no need to worry this much, just look for a good one, im not sure how this works, but maybe if you dont use one your breast might even start falling so when you get older they will be very low, not sure, also i’ve heard that you can get hurt if you run without bra, dunno look for something for you, i think there would be something.

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#25

Cause breasts are fat sacks for feeding infants and so are no more intrinsically sexually than a man’s pecs or biceps?

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#26

Says you!:smiley:

Peace

Tim

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#27

Says every society in the tropics where they let the girls hangout and everyone wears loincloths. :slight_smile:

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#28

Well, perhaps in those cultures, that is true but it is not where I live. And, quite frankly, I don’t care what any society in the tropics find sexually attractive. I know what I find sexually attractive and no one can tell me otherwise.:yup:

Peace

Tim

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#29

It is bothers you, then don’t look at it.

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#30

Dude I’m bi. And I TOTALLY agree that boobs are AWESOME! However so are Benedict Cumberbatch’s cheekbones (you might know him as Sherlock or Khan) and HUNDREDS of females (and probably some males) agree with me. This does not make me believe he should cover them.

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#31

Also this ^
again I’m bi and I NOTICE when a girl with a behind is wearing yoga pants. Then I shake my head a bit remind myself there is a human to the butt and STOP STARING!!! I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH PEOPLE DON’T STARE!

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#32

Who says it bothers me?:confused:

Peace

Tim

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#33

Each to his/her own.

Peace

Tim

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#34

My point was: attractive =/= should not be seen.

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#35

But the game of love is best played with disguises and obstructions and fabric in the way. I want to know my lover’s body when she chooses to reveal herself in intimacy, not the very first moment I see her.

Covering up beauty is the most erotic thing in the world. When we reveal and commidify our beauty, that is a real turn-off.

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#36

And if she chooses to reveal that her boobs have nipples and don’t float in place to the general public?
You say you want HER to choose but it seems to be only in the framework of what you like.

It really isn’t a question of what turns you on. Actually it’s sort of the opposite. The point of modesty is to not be erotic. So should we all be streaking? (I hope not its cold here)

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#37

the thing is, female breast arouses men in certain places, on others it is normal.

it is not an “if it makes you feel uncomfortable don’t look”. both cases are proven wrong by pornography, for first, it shows that people are attracted to breast in a sexual way, and for the second it shows that there are people who don’t want to stop looking

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#38

They have nipple shields, which are like pasties, but they keep your nipples from showing through thin shirts.

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#39

Just stopped by to see what’s shakin’ in here.

:rolleyes:

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#40

Only time in public I don’t wear one,is if I’m with girls only…

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