This is a spinoff of another thread, so to avoid hijacking that thread, I started this one.
I just want to add, that my wife and I did have this talk and she has no problem with me looking at her email nor do I have a problem with her looking at mine. It is actually pretty common for her to ask me to check her email and see if there is anything interesting in it. As far as I know, there are no secrets between us and everything is open.
All of our friends know that if you tell one of us, whether in person or other media, the other will also know. When people tell me not to tell other people things, my first response is that I agree to that, but my wife and I are one and we don’t keep things from each other. We really try to take the idea on “one flesh” to heart.
Reading from the other thread, I realized, that we might be in the minority so I wanted to discuss it.