Greetings all people, friends and scholars
I have a young friend who has PE (premature ejaculation) and I do not have the personal experience to solve all aspects of this kind of thing, or part of it anyway. strictly speaking, he said he thinks he has it (PE) but he’s not 100% sure. although he said he dreamt something impure (unwillingly) and it came out (if you know what i mean) almost immediately. he has a dilemma: he doesn’t know if he should find a girlfirend and get married, but he’d like to do so.
- is it morally okay for him to get a girl friend, if he has or strongly thinks he has this condition? he regards it as a defect that might render him unsuitable for a relationship.
- if he does find a girlfirend, should he tell the girlfriend he thinks he has this problem, or keep it a secret? it may effect the happiness of the marriage in the future.
- and what can he do (in line with church teachings) to alleviate the problem, in the future if he gets married.
much help appreciated. i do have my own opinion but i’d like to get other opinions too.