this Protestant pastor I know has this REALLY infuriating habit of just arriving, completely unannounced, at our place and stays for hours. He just did it again today. A particularly bad example; when I returned home from living/ working in Italy for a few months, my grandparents whom I don’t see that often came over to visit, and he showed up when they were over, without warning (as per usual). Kinda spoilt the whole “family” thing.
I’ve asked him several times already to call before he comes over, but he never has. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to tell him to stop coming over in a nice but firm way? I really don’t want anything to do with him or his church.