I lost my long-time girlfriend last year due to a really terrible and sudden act of betrayal. She had adult relations with multiple people at the same time one night, without warning. We couldn’t recover from what she had done, we decided, and mutually broke up after two years of seeing one another. Her attitude and behavior afterward were even more hurtful and made someone I had seen as such a wonderful person for two years seem unrecognizable.
It has not yet been a year since this has happened, and I have been struggling. However, with the Lord’s help and the Church’s guidance, I have found great solace and consolation in prayer and the concept of “offering it up” to Christ. Still, I find myself, especially now, with an intense void in my life that she has left, as well as continued pain from the memories of what happened between us, as well as pain from knowing that she got into another serious relationship less than six months after we ended, which she is still in. It doesn’t seem “fair,” I suppose, but I must trust in the Lord.
Please pray that the Lord would grant me another relationship soon, if He wills it, and console me if He does not. Please also pray for my ex-girlfriend, that in her new relationship she would remain faithful and pure, and learn from her mistakes. I would really appreciate your prayers - I feel like I’ve cried rivers about this, and I need prayers to continue to suffer gladly, at the very least.
God Bless You all.