Hi all. My ex-brother-in-law is in need of some prayers.
He and my twin sister dated for 5 years (both were in the Air Force) and after they broke up (in '09) we found out that they had actually been married (long story).
Anyway, my sister ended things with him while he was away at some training. It completely shattered him and I used to talk to him on the phone and try to help him deal. Somewhere along the way, he felt “betrayed” that I was “siding with my sister”. I wasn’t taking any sides, but at the end of the day my sister is my sister.
I haven’t spoken to him for almost a year but have heard things that make me rather upset. A lot of his friends no longer speak to him because they say he is “out-of-control”, a “mooch”, etc.
He was never a go-getter and always needed a little bit of motivation, but I truly think he might be doing drugs, specifically steroids.
He’s working as a personal trainer and some of his actions (that I’ve heard about) worry me. I lived with he and my sister for awhile so he became family to me, sort of like a brother figure. To hear that he is not making wise decisions is painful to me and I want to ask that you lift him up in your prayers so God can guide him to become good again.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read this and for praying for him.
I truly appreciate it.
Also, I sent him a message today via Facebook just to ask how everything was going for him and to see how he was. I am praying that he doesn’t think I am being devious by doing so. I prayed about contacting him a lot and last night I had a dream that he was losing himself, so I decided to send the message.